Relationship status:
I'm waiting for a miracle
Lovesickness is massive pain on all levels. The way in which this pain is experienced is completely individual. There are no rules or clear timetables for this. Every breakup experience is unique precisely because we weave our very personal story into it. In the case of separation, many topics can be mixed up, including biographically unprocessed experiences. Depending on how the separation came about, a number of inner-psychic processes may become conscious. Some of these can also be painful relationship experiences from earlier stages of life that are now being triggered.
Because lovesickness often involves a variety of inner dynamic areas and external life circumstances, the pain can seem so unbearable. Perhaps a dearly longed-for way of life has to be given up. You may feel compelled to question your entire memory of the relationship because you have been deceived for a long time. It is possible that there are no answers at all because the partner went from one day to the next and since then has blocked all attempts at contact. Whatever your story, it takes good strategies to grow from the experience and not fail from it.
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The focus of my therapeutic work on separation pain is:
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• Ways to deal with the pain
• Post-breakup do's and don'ts
• Clarification of relationship patterns and unresolved relationship experiences
• Realignment strategies
• To establish new thought patterns
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